Here’s a cool explanation about tyre pressure
While setting the tyre to the manufacturers recommendations might seem like the obvious choice, it does get a bit blurry when you fit tyres that are not OEM. Different tyres have different carcasses and therefore require different pressures. The manufacturers recommend pressure is a good starting point but not necessarily ideal for your tyres, riding style or conditions. Even a brand new set of tyres may have a different ideal pressure compared to a worn set of tyres just because the rubber is thinner on a worn set and therefore the carcass is more flexible.Set tyre pressure as per manufacturer's recommendation.
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Love to see some pics of the area you live and ride.I've done about 3,750km on my Metzeler Roadtec 02's. I've been running 33/39 F/R (36/42 is Honda's recommendation). The traction has been fantastic and it makes the ride a bit smoother due to the tyre soaking up some of the smaller bumps BUT I have noticed that the rear is flattening off a bit in the middle. I'm already down to about 2.5mm at the lowest point in the middle of the tyre and still about 4mm at the deepest point of the tread about half way between the middle and edge of the tyre. I am going to try increasing the pressure back to Honda's recommendation of 36/42 and see if that slows the wear in the middle.
Note that I don't ride on motorways and I don't do burnouts. I live in Wanaka, New Zealand which is a town in the mountains so whenever I go on the open road it's twisting roads. I do ride quite quickly, cruising at like 130km/h on the straighter sections of road and I go pretty quickly through the twisty stuff. The roads around here are all chip seal as well so that's a bit rougher on the tyres. I sometimes take my GF on the back of the bike but I always put the pressure up to 42 on the rear when she is coming with me. I feel like a sport touring tyre should last longer but I think I will be lucky to get 6,000km out of this rear tyre. Hopefully increasing the pressure to 36/42 will improve longevity without affecting handling. I already noticed it feels bumpier with the tyres at 36/42 but I guess it's a trade-off for longevity and to save $$.